Thursday, July 16, 2009

Desire

In 8th standard, under the history course syllabus I crammed a question which was about the "teachings of lord budha". The answer was so very well crammed that i still remember it.
It goes as:
"There is suffering in the world. The suffering has a cause. The cause is the DESIRE. To end the suffering, one must end the Desire."

As this crammed answer just striked me some days back, though i don't know how out of blue....I realised the actual meaning of what this answer conveyed.

Desire means : The feeling that accompanies an unsatisfied state or An inclination to want things.

Yes indeed, most of the problems what we all face up, comes due to some intended/unintended desires. Desire to succeed, Desire to be loved the way we love others, Desire to have a happy and contended life and the list goes endless.

Desires may come w.r.t a situation, career, a person and i feel could be in context of everything and anything that we 'humans' intend to have in our lives. The mad race to achieve those desires goes so wild that we forget what life is made up of - small gestures of love, care, enjoyment.
We forget what beauty the spring brings, what relief rain shower brings, with what melody the birds sing.

But not achieving something desired should not end up in we loosing the true essence of life and thus invite depression ( or any sort of suffering) into our lives.
To desire is human nature but then not having everything that one desires is God's own way to make us realise that one cannot have everything in life!

And I think its an irony that all of us know that desires may hurt if not completed ;)
But then if we would have been able to end up all desires, may be we could have never felt how does it feels to have recieved what was desired out of someone, some situation or some prayer. Everything would have been so very dynamic and without any thoughts/wish. Desires are important till the time we dont end up forgetting what life is made of.

So, though I feel what Lord Budha taught is absolutely - The Truth, but still having desires is a way to realise and watch "Dreams realising into reality!"

9 comments:

Bibhakar said...

Awesome... Like the way you describe Buddha's lesson... more practical and related to real life.. Keep it up... Hope to see more & more posts...

leo30 said...

Somebody just turned matured enough to write amazingly wonderful...!! :D

Nice to see.. and keep posting...!! :-)

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Unknown said...

Hey its very nice....U told the secret of life...hope every body realises...most beautiful part is u remembered 8th standard stories...and keep writing...:)

Kanika said...

Thanks for your support :)

Unknown said...

that was a nice analysis.....keep up good work :)

Unknown said...

Hey roomie..nice to see you writing again...really like it. But i still believe that desires are really important to be motivated in life..its just that we should know how to handle them. keep the spirit alive.. n keep writing.. :)

Unknown said...

Good work done kanika , never knew u are such a good writer , m sure u have ended 1 of the desires to be a blogger :), so guys looking for gyaan on desires keep following the Blog.

shreyansh said...

acha likha hai
I know ye likhne ke liye tu real life se inspire hui hai
But fir bhi all credit goes to u.
jayada khush mat hona tera pahla blog hai isiliye acha acha likh ra hun, taaki aage tu ache se likh sake, kyuki jo mere saath hua wo doosron ke saath ni hona chahiye naa.